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This entry is dedicated to Chewlian and all humans who got their heart brokened.

With acknowledgement to Dictionary.com, i got a defination for love. This is what they define love as.

10 entries found for love.
  1. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
  2. A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
  3. a. Sexual passion.
    b. Sexual intercourse.
    c. A love affair.
  4. An intense emotional attachment, as for a pet or treasured object.
  5. A person who is the object of deep or intense affection or attraction; beloved. Often used as a term of endearment.
  6. An expression of one's affection: Send him my love.
  7. a. A strong predilection or enthusiasm: a love of language.
    b. The object of such an enthusiasm: The outdoors is her greatest love.
  8. Love Mythology. Eros or Cupid.
  9. often Love Christianity. Charity.
  10. Sports. A zero score in tennis.

And the synonyms..

Synonyms: love, affection, devotion, fondness, infatuation. These nouns denote feelings of warm personal attachment or strong attraction to another person. Love is the most intense: marrying for love. Affection is a less ardent and more unvarying feeling of tender regard: parental affection. Devotion is earnest, affectionate dedication and implies selflessness: teachers admired for their devotion to children. Fondness is strong liking or affection: a fondness for small animals. Infatuation is foolish or extravagant attraction, often of short duration: lovers blinded to their differences by their mutual infatuation.

But what exactly is love? I bet nobody seriously knows. I doubt it can even be explained in words. To me, its an intense emotion which is consistently changing. Either towards the positive, or the negative side. Im not only talking about the boy-girl kinda love, but also God's, parental, friends and love towards animals and whatever nots.

And of cause, many or can i say all of us have got our heart brokened at least once due to love. And im sure it wasnt easy to mend that broken heart of yours. But time do tell, it does heals the wound inflicted. Be it short term or long term, one will gradually get over it some day or another.

But love is indeed incredible. It can cause a person to turn berserk, it can create a murderer or cause one to commit suicide. It can cause 2 or more people to bear grudges against each other and also cause hatred to grow. It can turn friends into foes, turn a person's life upside down, causing one to suffer from depression. And the list goes on, whatever negative effects you can think of.

But love, can also bring smiles to your radiant face day in day out. Love can make one happy and fortunate. Oh man, i cant think of what other positive effects love can bring. But im sure there are more. Its all in the mind.

Whatever it is, love is weird, its irritating, its sweet, its sour, its bitter, its romantic, its good, its bad, it sucks etc etc. Its all how you wanna view it. Take it on the low, everything will turn out just fine.

Learn to let go when needed, learn to be strong. Learn to face the music and accept whatever harsh fact there is in this real world. There is seriously no point pushing the blaming on anyone when a relationship failed to work out or when someone have a change or heart. It takes two hands to clap.

Love is an emotion, its a feeling. Its something one cannot control. One cannot stop loving another, neither can one stop another from loving yourself. And no, it cannot stop someone from having a change of heart.

Enough said, too tired to go on. And in conclusion, what is love?


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